I use to constantly hear as a child that I should not judge others. All I did was judge others, at least I thought. What about the kid who picked buggers from his nose, or the teachers pet, or the bully spitting wet balls and the nerds head? What was I to think nothing?
I soon learned that there is a difference between a judgement and an opinion. I will change an opinion but I won't change a judgement.
For example if I see a guy for the first time, he's dirty, and looks like a bum, I'll call him a dirty bum. If I see him a year later and he is cleaned up and doing well, if my first impression was an opinion I will say "Oh, he's cleaned up, he is no longer a dirty bum", but if I have judged him I will most likely say, A suit don't change things he is still a dirty bum."
What does this have to do about race? Every race has an opinion about another race. The unwillingness to change the opinion makes it racism.
I have a racist skeleton in my closet. If I heard a white person speak with a southern accent I assumed they were racist.
I WAS WRONG.
It took enlistment in the Navy to prove me wrong. One of my best and loyal friends was a red head freckled kid from Tennessee. Today I listen to the words and not the accent.
Mark Cuban and I are entitled to our opinion. He and I should both be allowed to make a mistake we are human.
Now Donald Sterling on the other hand has proven in thought and deed to be an outright racist. He is also prejudice to people who have AIDS and are HIV positive.
He has practiced racism as a property owner. I know a Vietnam combat veteran who was displaced due to his racist practice. Therefore Sterling has earned the title of racist, and Mark Cuban has not.
Now, if you ask me if Mark Cuban's remarks about a black man in a hoodie was smart? Hell no! It was stupid in fact. He has a business and it just might be effected as a result.
Should he be judged a racist. No. Saying or thinking dumb things does not tell you what is in a person's heart. His actions give you a clear view.
So I give Cuban a pass for saying something that was not to smart for a NBA owner.
Of course that is my opinion and I'm sticking with it for now!